You know the old saying: "You can't have real friends online." I disagree with this a lot. I have a handful of online friends that I've had for years and I believe they are just as close as out of game friends if not closer. I just don't understand how people can say that your online friends aren't "real". Why aren't they real? They are real people. They have everyday lives just like I do. Sure interacting with people online is easier than face to face, but isn't it true that the more you know about a person the easier it is to talk to them? In our generation its becoming more and more common that people have more online friends than "Real Life" friends. Lets look at Facebook for example. Facebook is THE online socializing website. It's a great way to find old friends who you've lost contact with or old co-workers. People also use it to keep in contact with family who might live across the country. Facebook has become acceptable for people to have just online friends so why can't you have online gaming friends? I know people who use WoW as a $15 a month chatroom. They log on chat with friends for a while and log off. There are guilds out there in WoW that have been around for 5 years with the same members. I'm sure they feel that they are all close friends.
Online relationships are a touchy subject. People generally tend to look down upon people who have found love via an online video game. Lets get a few things out in the open. Some gamers are socially awkward myself included. While I am out spoken I'm always misunderstood. I'm a very blunt and to the point kinda person and its generally misunderstood as being bitchy or rude. I'm also not your average female. I don't like shopping, most girly things, and whatever it is that females are into. ( I don't even know lol) I like video games, cartoons, movies, comics and music. In social situations with non- gaming females I never ever know what to talk about. It usually ends up with me being quiet and awkward. It's the same for me when it comes to talking to males who aren't into games and such. I met the love of my life through WoW. Yes that's right folks I met my boyfriend online. We've been together since May 5th 2007. We met in November of 06'. It was the end of Vanilla and I was looking for a pvp guild. We clicked immediately. We talked over the months and got to know each other. He drove 2,000 miles to get me and we never looked back. We rarely fight and if we do we can't stay mad at each other longer than 10 mins. I love him more than words can describe. I always tell people our story who are in these types of relationships to give them hope. Online relationships can be hard. The distance is painful but if you get enough courage to meet outside of the game you'll be surprised.
Friendships and Relationships can be found anywhere. Don't let people tell you that you can't have friends online. Don't let anyone tell you that you can't find love on a video game. You can find that person who shares the same interests as you. Also to all you WoW trolls who said We would never last. Ha in your face.